Hello, my name is Rosemary, it’s nice to meet you. I am a Clinical Sexologist also known as a Sex and Relationship Therapist. By day, I work with an online sexual health service and by night, I see my sex therapy clients. When I’m not working, you’ll find me in the gym lifting weights or I’ll have my nose glued to a book with a glass of Malbec. My book genres of choice will usually include black history, personal development, or business.
In a previous life, I was the Matron for a large busy Integrated Sexual and Reproductive Health Service, in which there was never a dull moment. After 20 years of working for the NHS, I am excited to be doing something different. The pandemic brought on a sense of urgency about taking life by the horns and pursuing my goals and sex therapy has been a goal 10 yrs in the making.
What I’m hoping to achieve going forward is to challenge cultural scripts which stifle women and prevent us from accessing full agency over ourselves.
I grew up in a Jamaican household where religion was the order of the day. I became curious about the number of single women in the church and the messages preached.
Sex was never a topic of conversation in our household. As a black girl navigating gender scripts, cultural scripts, religious indoctrination, and silence, I felt like I had been thrown to the wolves without any preparation. My observations, experience, and curiosities led me to a career in sexual health nursing and SRE education.
I am really excited and honoured to work with people who don’t usually access therapy.